《Anybody Out There》经典读后感有感

《Anybody Out There》是一本由Marian Keyes著作，Penguin Books出版的Mass Market Paperback图书，本书定价：111.87元，页数：592，特精心收集的读后感，希望对大家能有帮助。

《Anybody Out There》读后感(一)：让你笑的是家庭，让你哭的是心伤

在封底上的评论写，这本书能让你笑，也能让你哭。如果说之前的溢美之词都是虚假广告，至少这句是真的。作者写的是畅销书，一水的绘本封面，表里一致，成年人的童话系列。这本是新作，狗狗出来的反响并不怎么样，因为它关于死亡。

死亡这东西很有趣，无论重生多么精彩多么完美，它却是你不能弥补不能绕过的黑洞。结束和消失是它存在的方式。我花了很久去念anna的第一部分，除了生词太多的原因，还有那太熟悉的过程，大多数时候凭着蛮力走过之后回头看看才知道那是什么境地，如果封面写着这是一个寡妇的回忆，我决不会买。

痛，一直痛，不能消除的痛，不能解释的痛，在这个折磨人的过程里anna拒绝去回想去解释那些痛，她宁可痛也不愿意寻找根源，即使她知道拒绝已经发生的事实太愚蠢。闭眼，转身，那么也许还有醒来的机会，就算再真实，也有成为梦的可能。小时候不知道小美人鱼怎么能忍受在刀尖走路，长大了才知道比吗啡更厉害的是希望，自己骗自己的希望。晚上哭累了无望地睡去，早上醒来还是期待奇迹的发生，心里祈祷着一生一次的奇迹就在此时此刻兑现吧，可惜奇迹不是存款，你想提就提。爱不万能，爱无能。

当时间慢慢过去，幻想的背影被远远抛在身后，总是不得不接受现实，至少面对。接着，是无穷无尽的崩溃，每当你觉得不能再绝望了，一小时后你就知道什么是更绝望，这种情绪也许来自于这个事端，但它是自我生长的怪物，不停地长大，并伴随着各种花样翻新程度不同的愚蠢。

《Anybody Out There》读后感(二)：One day you wake up and understand everything

这次应该不会有关键情节透露了吧？因为故事实在太长了，翻到最后一页，陪着女主角ANNA走完了人生最不能错过的其中一段，也随着她的遭遇心情一起一伏，就像经历了一场精神的洗礼。

这场精神的洗礼，缘于我在起初犯了一个错误。我跟ANNA一样，以为ADIAN会回来。

ANNA伤得一塌糊涂，还信誓旦旦一定要回纽约，因为她知道ADAIN在等他。我以为他们一定经历了可怕的事情，然后产生了很深的误会导致分手。我以为ADAIN会回来。

ANNA回到纽约，每天给ADAIN留言，邮件，分享生活的琐事，我开始明白她有多爱这个男人，我同样相信他也爱她，可能他有什么苦衷暂时躲藏起来，可能那个旧爱JANIE绑架他了（好莱坞式电影看太多）。我以为ADAIN会回来。

ANNA终于醒悟到ADAIN永远地离开了，那个一见钟情，命中注定的人，那个结婚还不到一年的丈夫，因为一次车祸，永远地离开了这个世界。ANNA机械地上班，机械地回家，静静地哭泣，朦胧地睡去，绝望地醒来，每天重复着一样的生活。我还是以为，ADAIN会回来。

ADAIN终究是回不来了。走投无路会让人做出许多不可思议的傻事。例如半夜会忽然醒来以为他还在身旁呼呼大睡，例如盼望他会附身蝴蝶或叶子飞进自己的窗台，例如每个星期参加灵媒聚会渴望通过那些自称拥有神力的人与他对话。而当这一切都落空，当一切都被现实拒之门外，剩下的只有自己，和自己的孤独。

没有人能够帮你走出来，只有你自己。

然后终于终于某一天，你醒来，发现一切都不一样了。曾经有人说过，我们需要用一年的时间去消化一个事实——某人已经死了，彻彻底底地离开了我们的人生。我们需要一整年的时间，去经历每一个没有这个人的日子，我们自己的生日，他的生日，结婚纪念日，他的忌日。这就像是一场精神的洗礼，当一切都完了，而我们还活着，便会明白，原来他真的，永远离开了。

或许当你已经释怀一切时，便会做一个甜甜的梦，梦里面他会像往常一样坐在你身旁，告诉你他永远爱你，永远守护着你。

《Anybody Out There》读后感(三)：Nobody is out there unless you truly listen to yourself.

Is THERE Anybody out there？ When we are alone, sometimes we would turn the question over in our minds for like a million times, especially during the times when some one we love have left us once for all. I’ve just experienced this and I couldn’t hide my sad feelings from anybody during that time. It’s like the world stops spinning and you just don’t care anything around you any more. Then I come to realized that only after you loved someone with all your heart and soul that would you have this devastating heartbreak when he or she left.

Anna was an Irish-born beauty PR living in NY. She was funny, bright and beautiful. Life could be the same until the day she accidentally met Adian. Back then, Anna has met all kinds of men in her life, but not once did she have the feeling she had for Aidan. Adian was a typical Irish Boston, sweet, kind and handsome. From the day Anna met Adian, they knew they were meant to be for each other and deserved to be the happiest couple in the world and nothing could separate them apart. But one car accidently changed them all. Anna was hurt and flew back to Ireland for several weeks. After she could walk again, she immediately flew back to New York to look for Aidan. There were times she thought she saw Aidan, but she didn’t understand why Aidan didn’t call her after she left so many messages on his machine and why he didn’t come back to their house as usual. When I read about this, I knew that something must have happened to Aidan.

When I read along, I gradually found the truth. Aidan was dead in the accident and he protected Anna with all his body during the accident. But maybe this was so hard to take all that in that Anna still believed Aidan was with her. When she remembered the accident, Anna was devastating. She kept crying and locked herself up. She basically spent all her money trying to talk to Neris Hemming, a person known for talking to the dead. But when she finally met her, she was shocking and furious. This person was a fraud, she couldn’t even tell Aidan’s name for certain. Months after months, Anna still thought about Aidan. But Anna was a strong character I’m really proud of. She spent all day at work during weekdays and met new friend to kill time at weekend. She didn’t want to forget Aidan, but she knew that Aidan would want to see her happy again. Anna also got support from the family she loved and made huge progress at work. And finally Anna was able to talk to Aidan all by herself. It was in a dream which looked very real actually. Anna also learnt that Aidan had a two-year-old son whom he had with someone else. And it was on the night the accident happened that Aidan was trying to tell Anna.

This book is about friendship, love, forgiving and understanding. You can learn how to be strong and how to love people. It is the best book I’ve read so far. A lot of twists and turns, and mostly, it made me laugh and cry when I read it. It made me understand what true love was.

PS, I love the cover of this book: butterflies fly around a NY yellow taxi, very beautiful. It was just like the story of this book, a dream indeed.